Baz\u0131 insanlar t\u0131pk\u0131 do\u011fadaki canl\u0131lar gibi; yeni bir dala tutunmadan eskisini b\u0131rakamaz.
Hayatta da ayn\u0131d\u0131r: Belirsizlik, bilinmezlik, risk\u2026 t\u00fcm\u00fc onlar i\u00e7in tehdit gibidir. Bu y\u00fczden hep bildikleri yerde kal\u0131rlar; al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 duygular\u0131n, ili\u015fkilerin, i\u015flerin, hatta kendilerini t\u00fcketen d\u00f6ng\u00fclerin i\u00e7inde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Korkular\u0131, cesaretlerinin hep bir ad\u0131m \u00f6n\u00fcndedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ama as\u0131l ilgin\u00e7 olan \u015fudur:
Bu garanticilik, d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan \u201cak\u0131ll\u0131l\u0131k\u201d gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de i\u00e7eride kocaman bir k\u00f6ks\u00fczl\u00fck ta\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ekten k\u00f6k\u00fc sa\u011flam olan, dal de\u011fi\u015ftirirken titremez. Kendine g\u00fcvenen, bir ad\u0131m\u0131 att\u0131\u011f\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015fmeyece\u011fini bilir. \u0130\u00e7sel g\u00fcveni olan bir insan\u0131n tutundu\u011fu \u015fey, d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki dal de\u011fil; kendine olan inanc\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan kendini de\u011ferli hissetmiyorsa, risk alacak i\u00e7sel omurgay\u0131 geli\u015ftiremez.
O omurga d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan de\u011fil, i\u00e7eriden g\u00fc\u00e7 al\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u00f6ks\u00fczl\u00fck ise insan\u0131 s\u00fcrekli d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki bir \u015feye tutunmaya zorlar:
Bir ili\u015fkiye, birine, bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011fa, bir g\u00fcvenli b\u00f6lgeye\u2026
B\u0131rakamaz, yenisine ge\u00e7emez; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u201cya tutunamazsam?\u201d korkusu i\u00e7ini kemirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu y\u00fczden baz\u0131 insanlar, tek bir ya\u015fam\u0131n i\u00e7inde iki ayr\u0131 benlik ta\u015f\u0131r:
Bir benlik, tutundu\u011fu dal\u0131n \u201cg\u00fcvenli\u011fine\u201d s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r;
di\u011feri ise y\u0131llard\u0131r bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f korkular\u0131n i\u00e7inde kaybolmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu ikilik, ki\u015finin i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma yarat\u0131r.
D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan \u201ckontroll\u00fc\u201d ve \u201ctemkinli\u201d g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrler ama i\u00e7eride s\u00fcrekli bir tetikte olma h\u00e2li vard\u0131r.
Kendilerini kaybetme ihtimali, b\u0131rakamama korkusuyla el ele y\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu i\u00e7sel b\u00f6l\u00fcnmede ki\u015fi ne mevcut h\u00e2line tamamen aittir,
ne de yeni bir hayata ad\u0131m atabilecek kadar kendini b\u00fct\u00fcn hisseder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tutundu\u011fu dal, asl\u0131nda bir g\u00fcven de\u011fil;
\u00e7\u00f6kmesini istemedi\u011fi bir savunma mekanizmas\u0131d\u0131r.
Bu y\u00fczden b\u0131rakmaz; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 an t\u00fcm duygusal y\u00fcklerinin \u00fczerine \u00e7\u00f6kece\u011fini hisseder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131n ironisi de burada:
Tutunamad\u0131klar\u0131 \u015fey, asl\u0131nda dal de\u011fil\u2026 hayat\u0131n ta kendisidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve insan, kendine tutunmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finde, hayat zaten onu ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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